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You can't change the behaviors of others. The only person whos behavior you can change is your own. Once I accepted this and incorporated it into my life, things got much much easier! Basically it means that you quit forcing people to do what YOU want them to do for whatever reasons YOU may have (even if they are good reasons they are still YOUR reasons).
Come on . . . grown folks should know better. When they don't, I don't have time to play mom. Do you have time to play Dad? I'm sure you don't by your post. And if you did have time, why would you want to? Couldn't you find something better to do with your time?
I agree with Senusret. Move out and be happy. You don't have time for all this. You are only stressing yourself out unnecessarily and causing your own misery. In the end, whatever you do will all be for nothing anyway. Bet you $19.20 that they will not change their disgusting piggy little ways.
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