[FuzzieAlum]

Every Greek I knew had lots of friends outside their organization - and there was usually someone inside the org they weren't friends with either, although of course they were still polite to each other as brothers or sisters! There were GDI girls I knew who were friends with most of the chapter, proving you don't have to pay to get the friendship. You aren't paying for the friendship anyway - you're paying for formals, mixers, housing, t-shirts, a chance to do philanthropy and grow as a person, opportunities to meet new people, chances to network, etc.