Ooohhhhh Hellllll Noooo!
Cjus - You need to
immediately confront someone about this. Frankly, I would document it as a letter and address it to the head of the church program, the pastor of the church, and the chairman of the church's trustee board. You should describe the situation just as you did in the email message.
Is this a black church?
This is blatant discrimination and if I were you, in that letter, I would state that you are uncomfortable participating in any program that intentionally treats non-white children unfairly.