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There was a situation in my chapter where a legacy rushed. She filled out her recruitment registration form and did not list our sorority as legacy chapter, but listed two others for which she was.
We later got a RIF from her mother's friend showing that she was a multiple legacy.
We figured out pretty quickly that she did not want to be a member of our chapter. I guess she thought that listing her legacy chapters meant she would somehow mean she automatically become a member of one of them? It didn't make sense since she was already a legacy to a majority of the chapters on campus (5 at that time).
Needless to say, she did not join our chapter. I did wonder what her mom (a Pi Phi) thought, or if she was even aware of the whole situation.
I think a LOT of moms are kept in the dark about their daughters' wishes.
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