[Matsimela]

I agree with Sensuret....

while it isnt exactly PC to just flat out ask if she's a groupie, you can still find out the answer to your own question by observation. How does she interact with the Iotas? Do you find that she does things for them that dont seem to follow with her purpose of being a sweetheart, etc etc. Every org has a reputation and that reputation varies from place to place. And just because sweethearts might be one way at one school doesnt mean that everyone is like that. Use your better judgement and if it becomes to much for you to handle, make a decision on what to do.