[DPhiEAlumna]

It's also a difficult transition when you don't live in the house and you don't feel connected to the sisters who live in the house. When you make the choice to affiliate with a sorority, you really are making a lifetime commitment to your sisterhood. I agree with the post that suggested you get more involved with the philanthropic endeavours of your chapter and international organization. Becoming disinterested in the "party" atmosphere happens a lot of juniors and seniors and you need to shift your focus in the sorority to other activities to keep building on the foundation you started in your first couple of semesters as an active.