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Old 02-27-2002, 08:03 PM
Dexter Dexter is offline
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Although I believwe the idea is a good one, the plan is FLAWED!
What do you mean men have to go through a screening process and supply an affidavit to confirm that we are available, educated and good looking with no strings(kids) attached, but women are going to be accepted as is? What in the hell makes you think that it's okay for a woman to have all that baggage and be accepted for who she is, but not a man? If you are looking for a well educated brother who is single and has no children, why would you assume that we aren't looking for the same thing? Ask yourself is that fair? I'll tell you right now MOST men aren't looking for a ready made family. SOME don't mind. I really cannot believe that you would think that men aren't also looking for someone on an equal status as women are! Luckily I'm married and don't have to woory about that. I just wanted you to think about the equality of the acceptance process.

P.S. Steelstrap the reason why your boyfriend won't set up his friends with yours is that when you hook up two people instead of them meeting naturally, it might not work out. And if it doesn't work out your friends will be reluctant to interact with you and your man for hooking them up. TRUST me I've been there the consequences may be too great.
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