I think the answer is to look into your own Organization! Why did tney not feel welcome, why were they looked down on!
If they were good enuff to recruit, they must be good enuf to work with and try to understand their fears of something totally new and strange to them!
To many Chapters across the country have put buttons on to many people to have large classes only to lose them! This word spreads like a hot fire in dry grass.
You then become known for that and soon you are no longer there!
I am the worst at remember names so as you know I am blunt, I just say I am terrible at remembering names and introduce myself again!
Everyone wants to feel wanted with a group that they were asked to become a member of!