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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I totally agree. The finances alone could ruin it for you. What if something happens with one of your financial sitches and rent ends up being shaky for a month? Two months? Think of the fights that could cause. What if you two get into a fight? That could put the other guy in an uncomfortable sitch and he'll be forced to choose sides and we all know he won't choose you. He could be uncomfortable period--you and your bf have been together for a long time. This would be a good test of what it would be like for the two of you to see what marriage would be like...learning to work together and deal with each other's habits. But throwing another guy into the mix takes all that away and complicates everything. I, personally, wouldn't do it, but I wish you best on what you decide.
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Judge Joe Brown episode waiting to happen.
Cohabitation either ends WELL or BAD. There's rarely an in between or people who say "eh...it was OKAY...it was what it was...no animosity or love lost...we shook hands in the end."
Adding another roomie to the mix makes the chances more fuzzy. Even if it was another female.
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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
I would hate to see what the bathroom looks like. Gross!
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Some men are obsessively clean.
If he's not one of them, she knows what to look forward to if they ever get married.
Corn chips and butt crumbs all over. Gross.