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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Personally, I don't think cohabitation is a good idea. Do you absolutely need to save money or do you absolutely need to test the milk before you buy the cow? If you two are just saving on living expenses, that's a financial arrangement that can quickly turn into a disaster of a relationship/platonic roommate situation.
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I totally agree. The finances alone could ruin it for you. What if something happens with one of your financial sitches and rent ends up being shaky for a month? Two months? Think of the fights that could cause. What if you two get into a fight? That could put the other guy in an uncomfortable sitch and he'll be forced to choose sides and we all know he won't choose you. He could be uncomfortable period--you and your bf have been together for a long time. This would be a good test of what it would be like for the two of you to see what marriage would be like...learning to work together and deal with each other's habits. But throwing another guy into the mix takes all that away and complicates everything. I, personally, wouldn't do it, but I wish you best on what you decide.