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Originally Posted by violetpretty

This was probably the situation. I commend the OP and her NM class for doing whatever they could to stop the hazing. It's just a real shame that there was not enough support (especially disappointing about the alumnae!) for a non-hazing chapter, and that the right women can't continue the chapter the right way.

Originally Posted by violetpretty

What I meant by "HQ not caring enough" was referring to 33girl's post. If an identical (for the sake of argument) hazing problem occurred at two different schools, one with a big strong Greek presence, and the other with a small, weak, Greek presence, guess which one HQ will work harder to save?

I can tell you for a fact that it's the big strong ones that bring in more money. It's sad, but it's true: a sorority is a business and money talks.

To the OP: I'm sorry you had to deal with this, I know what it's like to see you chapter close while you are an active. But, it's better then someone having gotten seriously hurt/died and facing legal action. I hope you can find a good alumnae association and be active in that way. With your questions, if you really don't want to contact HQ, maybe PM a member on here that is alumnae but still active and see if they can help you out? That's what I would do if I didn't want to call HQ.