When I was a province officer, I'd bring back DG party shirts from various schools for my teen-agers to wear - I remember they fought over a shirt featuring Grateful Dead-type bears! No worries about them joining...my chapter no longer existed at either Alabama or Auburn (and one is a boy!). Daughter eventually joined Delta Zeta...she still occasionally wears her DG shirts around (she's been out of school for 2 years now)...I figure it's good PR!