We had a big thread about living together before marriage. Maybe you should check it out.
http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?t=92128
I personally wouldn't move in with him. I think it's best for couples to have their own spaces to live. He also already lives with someone, and that could lead to an "odd man out" situation where the 3rd guy feels pushed aside or resents you for moving in on their space.
Also, this guy seems nice now. But what happens if you move in and the 2 of you don't get along? That puts your bf in a bad spot.
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