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I agree a lot with what everyone else has said. Your setting yourselves up for failure if you are only using these Kids as a number, a number is only a number and means nothing compared to non-material benefits of Brotherhood. A Brother is more than a number. A Brother embodies everything that your Fraternity stands for. If these pledges don't embody those things, they should not be looked at as future brothers. Your charter will be worthless if you are just going to lose it in a semester or two because of these Kids. If you really care for your fraternity then it's future status and every single person you even think about letting pledge should mean almost the world to you so you would get rid of anyone or anything that is going to give themselves, you, your fraternity and it's founders a bad name. If they don't fit what ever standard it is that you use to pledge someone, they should not even be there. Tell you headquarters what is going on and I am pretty sure that they will understand. If you have a colony advisor or advisory board, I would let them know too. There should be no giving these kids an Ultimatum, get rid of them. Good luck.
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