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Originally Posted by christiangirl
No, it's not okay for people to drop friends for an SO, especially if they aren't serious, just dating. The friendships will change and that is to be expected, but to abandon them altogether is doing a disservice to those who stuck by you when your behind was single just like the rest of us.
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We are >>>Here<<<. And, honestly that ain't healthy. I'm not saying that the time you spend with friends shouldn't and won't change, but to cut friends off--real friends--is not cool. I have been with my sweetie for a loooong time, and he is honestly my "bestest" friend...but sometimes a sistah needs a break and I'm sure its the same with him. Sometimes I just want "me" time or girl time that doesn't need approval from him because I am nobody's animal. We have developed a
trust between each other that we will always try to honor and respect each other and our relationship..so even if I'm with my girls or he's with his boys where ever...respect Velocity and respect Mr. Maybe Velocity. At the end of the day its not the places people go that creates problems...its the people.
But, yeah...that's not healthy because if that relationship you sacrificed your friendships for doesn't work out..then what? These days REAL friends are definitely hard to come by and I'm darn sure not going to sacrifice the very FEW I have for a man...but that's just me...
It's called balance...