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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
They don't dance no mo
They don't dance no mo
People don't dance no mo
All they do is THIS
All they do is THIS
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For heaven's sake, even I knew that was Goodie Mob.
PB, if you told me your girlfriend is 55, I'd totally believe you.
This topic is hitting a serious nerve with me. Honestly, my BFF is now my ex-BFF and part of it is because of a man. She said she's too busy with school and work to keep in touch, but I know better. She knows that I don't approve of her relationship (because I am one of the few who know that her SO is also someone else's husband) so, even though I said not agreeing with the relationship doesn't mean I don't still love and support her, she has decided to avoid dealing the feeling of disapproval by dropping me as a friend and not telling anyone else about his marriage.
This is not the question posed, so my view is skewed, but I do still have an opinion on the matter. No, it's not okay for people to drop friends for an SO, especially if they aren't serious, just dating. The friendships will change and that is to be expected, but to abandon them altogether is doing a disservice to those who stuck by you when your behind was single just like the rest of us.