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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
Oops, I forgot to mention that even though I love this girl, she 1) isn't exactly a prodigy, and 2) she seems to think Greek life is all about partying. She grew up in another country, so she wasn't exposed to it much until she came here, and then the example set by the groups at that university probably isn't the best.
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UM....Two Words: RED FLAG. This is a disaster waiting to happen, and it WILL happen.
I can say with complete confidence that it's definitely not the right time for her to join a sorority. As we all know by now, sororities are not all about partying. I remember being really surprised and impressed by the level of responsibility I came into by joining. It was hard work at times! Yes, we had a ton of fun too, but her assumptions are indicative of her lack of maturity. I'm not saying that as an insult, I mean, come on!! - she's young! She should be flirting with high school boys and going to school dances, or whatever 15 year olds do~.....Now, when she gets closer to 18, maybe she'll have a better idea of what sorority is really about. Personally, I can't help but wonder what on earth her parents are thinking in sending her to college at such a young age, but I'll get off my soap box.
If you really care about her well-being, have a candid chat.... and more importantly, I would also consider contacting the Panhellenic Director at her school and give her a big heads up. For me, this has nothing to do with age discrimination - in this case it has to do with a huge liability, a complete lack of maturity, and a lack of genuine interest in the concept of sisterhood and philanthropy! Decision are made to cut girls/women for a wide variety of reasons - logical/illogical/fair/unfair...I can't think of any sorority I've ever come into contact with that would want ANYONE, regardless of age, who just wanted to party. Furthermore, I highly doubt that this girl is even able to comprehend the concept of lifelong sisterhood at this point in time.
If she were 16 and had a strong, educated interest, was willing to put in the effort, and could bring something to the organization - that is a completely different story!
This may end up resolving itself though - As Volgirl said, no one in their right mind would let such a young girl in! It is the antithesis of responsibility!!!
Good luck and please keep us in the loop.