[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I know and I was asking you what you thought when boozing and wild partying in clubs and bars isn't in the equation at all.

Right but you didn't answer my questions.

Exactly. She mentioned all of the above. Clubs, bars, dancing and boozing, and since I do none of the above, I choose not to associate myself with people who do.

You asked me if it bothers me dancing with and socializing with "black professionals" at a get together, or something to that effect. No, it doesn't bother me, nor do clubs and bars bother me, because I don't have to hang out at those types of establishments. I socialize with professional people of all races daily when I go to work or have lunch with them.

No, I wouldn't consider myself a "homebody" at all. I get out of the house and I do things that I enjoy. Clubbing, dancing, boozing, bars, and socializing/dancing with "black professionals" or any professionals serve no interest to me.

As far as a woman sending the wrong signal is concerned, I won't entertain that, because it's too hard to explain.

I'm only able to see my lady friend on the weekends, because of the drive, so we don't see each other often, but when we do, we do go places together, rather it be casual or formal. We also make time for our friends
(of the same sex) I don't have any female friends, only associates, and I don't get involved in relationships with women who have male friends, but that's a topic that has already been discussed on another thread.


Different strokes for different folks.

Did I answer all of your questions?

ETA: I really think you all are getting the wrong impression of me, because you can only base your thoughts about me from what I post on here. According to the GC members that I have actually met IRL, they were shocked in a positive way, because they saw a different person when they actually got a chance to sit down and talk to me on a one on one basis. I think it's very difficult to make an opinion about someone you've never met IRL.