You seem like an intelligent, ambitious woman who has a lot going for her. However, in your posts, there is a bit of desperation that comes across, like maybe you are trying too hard. Perhaps this comes across in real life, as well? Being in a competitive group will not validate you - in fact, it may very well cause you to doubt why you are there. (We've seen this SO many times with recent initiates). My advice is to RELAX! You will meet greeks at the gym, working a part-time job on campus, volunteering, and study groups. These are all great things that don't require an application. I think the sororities will care less about your resume, and more that you are an interesting person that happens to know a sister or two from class (or wherever). Even saying, "well, I'm a big movie buff, so I organize a movie night for me and my friends once a month" will be better than "my hobby is trying out for competitive clubs." :P Good luck and remember that college is a time to try new things and have fun!!!
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