day 4, business casual,
I went to today a little less sure of where i would belong. i knew i really liked madison and isabella and i wouldnt be incredibly bummed if i became an emily. emma was also getting better. so i went into each party with an open mind.
Emma- this night made them a little less impressionable. i was with the same girl all night and she just thought that we were one in the same. she was on the cheerleading squad too (she cheered for games and i was stricly a competition cheerleader) but i had never talked to her. they made a big mistake by having one of the pho chi's in their slide show, and tried to cover it by switching the slide quickly, (everyone had already seen it), i dunno their impression just weakened with me this night, not that they were doing anything wrong, it was just not as big of an impression.
Emily- they were nice tonight. i know its superficial but they wernt dressed as nicely as the rest of the chapters. they were ok, but not really impressionable.
Madison- they overdid it with me tonight. when i got here i realized why every chapter was treating me different than all of the other girls. at my school, it is kinda a good thing to be a legacy, and to get someone else's legac was a major thing. they pressured me hard core. they sat me in a big cushioned chair with about 7 girls around me. the rest of the girls were around a large table in folding chairs with slip covers. they kept asking me questions about my mom and why i wanted to go through recruitment and not just join her chapter. then they served refreshments and they all sat and watched me eat and drink and none of them had anything. then the president came over to me and without being too obvious about it basically told me that the wanted me. i left really wierded out. i told ashley about it later and she told me that they did the same thing to her... i later found out that she too was a legacy.
Isabella- they were really relaxed. they had an alum speaker. it was nice. i didnt get to see the girl that i had been talking to for the past three days. the president came and talked to me here too. i just got a feeling from them...
the next day i was to get my pref invites. if i got 4 i had to pick three. if i got 3,2 or 1 i had to go to all of them
i really wanted isabella, i knew i was a shoe in to madison, emma and emily were both ok. i wouldnt be dissapointed anywhere