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Originally Posted by AGDee
The girl's mother thought, when this "relationship" started that it would last a week, two, maybe a month, like most first boyfriend/girlfriend gigs do. She's kinda freaking out now that it's been 6 months and the kid is practically living at her house. However, I think she's kind of glad they are always at HER house so she can keep an eye on them. She's generally a pretty cautious mom but she was hoping for a quick crash and burn, but the burn hasn't happened yet. And yeah, they watch TV, study, listen to music, go to movies, ice skating, etc... and when they aren't with each other, they are texting or on the phone.
I guess I'm sort of proud that my daughter confronted it, even though it's tense right now (because everyone is in a huge fight). At her age, I wouldn't have confronted it, I just would've talked about the girl behind her back, so I think my girlie is more assertive than I was at that age.
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Moms had better step in right away. The best thing she can do is encourage--if not downright enforce--her daughter to maintain her relationships with her girlfriends. 14 is way way too young to be joined at the hip like that.
It is really good that your daughter confronted it. It won't be tense for long--they're 14, and memories are short at that age.