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Originally Posted by BandGinterest
um ok im definetly confused. i was only raised in two places i was born and raised puerto rico and raised in the united states as well (so no i am not asian) ...i have worn hijab since i was 13 and i wear it all year long so yes jeans and a long tee in summer. i never lived in a muslim country i grew up in a gated community attended private prep school. pretty much everything i do involves me being the only person of color. to me going to the "hood" would be a culture shock(no offense to those who reside there). my religious attire doesnt (its not cultural) doesnt bother me. i love it and am comfortable in any situation i go into. greek social life does involve males i understand. From what i was told by a friend is that if i am active in the chapter with the sisterhood activities , commnity service and fundraisers (if i do end up with a bid) and choose not to go to a toga party or something that no one is going to think of me in a negative light.
but thanks for the reply's thus far
Amirah
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You seem to have thought about it a lot, which I commend you for. Also, keep in mind these things:
They won't talk about toga parties with guys during recruitment, so no big deal.
And if you get a bid, you can always go to socials and mixers and not drink, right? I don't know a lot about your religion, but would that be a problem, to just go and hang out? If not, then just keep in mind that you don't HAVE to stay home!