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i'm with everyone else on this.
i know plenty of guys who were "geeky" in high school that went on to be successful in college and in good chapters.
It is not her business to intrude like that and try to deter him from rushing b/c she doesn't think he will get a bid. That is up for the fraternities to decide. For all we know, he may find the right group of guys who teach him how to dress and how to shed his "geekiness" without losing himself. During the process, he may decide the whole greek thing is not for him.... who knows.
That is not up to her to decide even if she is trying to spare his feelings.
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