[FSUZeta]

perhaps your friend could suggest that the young man wait a year before he rushes, suggesting that he get used to college life and joining a non-greek activity or club. she could suggest that should he decide to rush his sophomore year, he would know the lay of the land better(ie-he would know which chapter he might fit in better).

maybe by that time, he would figure out for himself that the odds are slim that he would be invited to join, or (hopefully) he will be so happy and involved with his other activities that he doesn't have the spare time to devote to fraternity membership or he just might make a lot of friends his first year at school that are in fraternities that appreciate his dry sense of humor and see how he could be an asset to their chapter and he would be offered a bid.

how cruel that she describes him as a person you would fix your roommate up with for an april fools dance. i find it hard to believe that he has no redeeming qualities. i hope that he waits a year , rushes and gets a bid, just to prove her wrong!