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I know you're looking for help and there is a lot of information and knowledgeable people on this forum, but I'm really really really going to recommend you take the identifying information out of your signature (user name is tougher, but you can ask to have it changed). You're likely to get more initial responses asking why you're putting your chapter on blast rather than anonymously asking for basically innocent information. But you're really not making your chapter look too great on this big huge world wide web at the moment. Ask your question, but don't feel you need the whole world sticking its nose right into your sisters.
And my answer to your questions is Rush Training. Do you have it? If you do, do more of it. Lots more of it. Ask your HQ and alums for help. And if those 10 girls say they don't have an opinion (are they shy or just lazy?), then they should abstain from voting, and abstentions always go with the affirmative, so they shouldn't be able to keep you from bidding girls. "I don't have an opinion" should not trump "girls that most of us agree would be excellent additions to our chapter." Why are you letting them hijack the membership growth of your chapter?
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