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^^^I wasn't referring to the girl who declined your bid because of time constraints then went on to accept another COB bid. I'm sure she was just hedging her bets attending as many COBs as she could.
I'm talking about the 2nd girl you brought up, the one you also talked about in the other thread. You throw your hands up and say "we just can't do anything to keep her from coming over!" YES, you can, you just aren't. It doesn't matter if your COBs are "open houses," the 2nd girl who has declined several bids already should not in any way still be considered a "potential" anything to you and you shouldn't let her have all the fun of hanging around the house and chilling with the sisters (especially during your RUSH events) because she "wants to spend time with you." She's a freeloader and I guarantee she's told plenty of people how she's turned down your repeated bids, it will hurt you on campus. Tell her she may NOT come over during RUSH events. If she really wanted to 'spend time with you' that much, she'd have accepted a bid. Stop acting like you're helpless in controlling what happens in and around your chapter. If that's how you feel, that's how you're seen.
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