It happens al the time. I agree that it's a sign of immaturity.
I've noticed that girls who disappear when they have boyfriends also end up ditching all of their old hobbies and interests in favor of his.
Example: Sally used to like running, dance, and scrapbooking. However when she started dating Bob, she stops doing all of that. Now all she does is watch WWE wrestling, go to WWE events, and wear black wrestling tees with jean shorts. True story.
As far as hanging out with couples, I don't really mind if we're going somewhere with other girls who are going to have bf's there. My only issue is when I want to do something "girly" with JUST girl friends and one bf always has to tag along (it's usually the one who's a douche and we all hate). Example: If I want to go get pedicures with some girlfriends, and Sally is like "Oh that sounds like fun, can Bob come too?" Umm no.
It's also disturbing when girls have to ASK PERMISSION from a bf to go somewhere like the mall. I understand if you're engaged or married and we were going to go out and get wasted, and maybe he might take issue with that. But we are just going to the mall. What do you mean "he won't LET you?"
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