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Originally Posted by 33girl
I thought we had this thread already because I remember bitching about this. Oh well.
PB, I think your situation is different if you only get to see each other on the weekends - of course that time is reserved for your lady if it's the only time you have with her. If you saw her every single day or lived with her and didn't want to ever go out on the weekend w/ your boys, that would be another story.
There's a difference between scaling back your "girls nights" and abandoning them completely - or worse, telling your friends you're not "allowed" to go out, even to someplace like Applebee's. No, I don't think you're joking when you say that.
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I agree.
Some couples actually try to lock each other down LITERALLY and keep each other from hanging out EVER. Bad idea.
I've also found that some people lie and say that they "aren't allowed to/can't" but really THEY just don't want to. So the friends begin to hate the significant other and think the relationship is lame when it's really just their friend who is making that decision. Either he/she doesn't want to hang out with that group anymore or he/she is so sprung that nothing else matters to HIM/HER.