[StarGazer08]

I apologize for not posting in forever but I got sick Sunday night when I got home and ended up in the emergency room with difficultly breathing (I have asthma). Anyway, it turns out it’s bronchitis and it’s totally wiped me out. However, I’ve been to all the new member events so this story does have a very happy ending! I will try to continue the writing if it is that day and I just came back from the parties. Since round 1 and 2 were in one day I will write those both in one post and then save pref for tomorrow and bid day for Tuesday in order to maintain the suspenseful nature.

Here is the rest of the story:

So if you remember due to a snow day round 1 and round 2 were smooshed into one day (Saturday). We went from about 4-10 with only about a ½ hour break in between. Needless to say it was intense! Also, I don’t know why they had us rank because we didn’t end up doing that again until Sunday night after pref. It turned out the sororities could cut us anytime they liked after round 1. If a sorority invites us back though we have to attend and cannot receive a bid if we don’t. I hear it was very different in previous years so apparently this is a new system to all involved.

Round 1 (game/getting to know you round)
Cookie Mintster- They had the absolute cutest set-up ever!!! They were all wearing matching Barbie girl shirts that said: Cookie Mintster Barbie: who wouldn’t want to be one. We talked for the most part and it was great. All these girls love to have a good time and love one another. I talked about so many things with so many different sisters here. From conversation about music to boys to hanging out to school everything flowed well. Another fact I learned is that the chapter is one of the very first chapters of the organization. I think they really like me!! They seem to be pretty elite though and I’m kind of wondering if I fit their mold (so to speak). I would LOVE to come back here!!

Founder’s Favorite- I like this chapter a lot better this time. They had a cute theme as well and really seemed to put a lot of effort into it. There were really cute decorations and it seemed as if many more sisters were there as opposed to during Round Robin. One game involved candy and questions and was a great way to get to know the sisters and other PNM’s at my table. If you got a certain color candy (I forget which) you had to say an embarrassing moment and I’m afraid I shared when that was too embarrassing. I hope it doesn’t count against me. I was quite surprised that I liked this chapter though as I didn’t really like it before. I wonder if it’ll make a continued comeback in round 2.

Birthday cake remix- Again, I know this sorority is not for me so going back is strange but my mother always taught me to be polite so that’s what I’ll do. I find one sister who is in one of my classes and end up talking to her for most the time. I do attempt to talk to a handful of other sisters and the conversation never seems to get off the ground. They all are nice girls though I know I don’t fit in here. This doesn’t stop me from wondering though what’s wrong with me as I seem to be doing so well at the other chapters and feel bad as if I didn’t try hard enough but I just have a feeling you know. What’s funny enough is that the tent talk is people who like Cookie Mintster usually also like Birthday cake remix and people who like Founder’s Favorite also like Cheesecake Fantasy. That just shows to me to never listen to tent talk lol.

Cheesecake Fantasy- Wow! Again I’m impressed with this chapter. I love love love these girls and can only hope they feel the same way. It’s very difficult so far for me to decide between the Cheesecake Fantasies and the Cookie Mintsters. I wonder if the fact that I’m a legacy here influences the way I feel about them. However, I realize there hasn’t been any cutting round yet so I could be getting my hopes up for nothing. Maybe they don’t even like me. Anyway, this round was great- we played some fun getting to know you games and all the girls seemed to nod at my answers. I also talked with the girl again whose friend I had studied abroad with. She said she was very happy to see me again. I hope this is a good sign! If invited back I will go back in and instant!!!

So that’s it for round 1. We are told we have a half an hour until the next ones start to get food or whatever. I can’t believe we have to come back so quickly. I take the time to freshen up my make-up and forgo the bite to eat. I’m so nervous about my invites that I can’t.

I’m invited back to every chapter and wonder why BCR invited me back. The rumor is (I find out later on) that the sororities only cut really if they really hated you or due to grades. Apparently pref party seems to be the most important cut. I am thrilled with all three and relieved I don’t have to go back to BCR. I feel a little guilty about this thoughl

Round 2 (philanthropy round)

Cheesecake Fantasy- I am love, love loving the Cheesecake Fantasies AGAIN! From the cutest theme (KISS tee shirts that said “KISS the competition goodbye). All the girls are really sweet, outgoing, and make an effort to get to know me while I learn about Cheesecake Fantasy’s philanthropy. While it’s an extremely worthy cause it’s not something I have a personal connection with (something that all the other ones have) I’d still love to raise money for this. However, I find out they only do one big philanthropy activity a year. The girls seem to enjoy the one they do do but don’t seem to have a passion for it. Perhaps I’m wrong for saying so (and if I offend anyone I apologize) but this bothers me a bit.

Birthday cake Remix- I walk into the room and we break off for groups to learn more about the philanthropy. It’s a cause that I hold dear to my heart so now looking back on it I’m glad I got invited back. During the craft I talk about how much their philanthropy means to me and how much I would love to contribute to it. The girls seem to be off put my excitement about it though and prefer to talk about other topics. *An after thought: I was very excited because I do love their philanthropy as it has something to do with what I want to be when I grow up and maybe I scared them*. They tend to do more casual events to raise money all throughout the year and don’t have an annual type philanthropy event set-up yet. While I love the philanthropy I still don’t feel at home here. I hope to not be invited back for pref.

Founder’s Favorite- Their room was decorated really well. Had balloons on the tables in the sorority colors and posters on the wall detailing different aspects of their philanthropy. First, the philanthropy chair speaks- she’s SO nervous and I feel so bad for her. She puts on a video afterwards that’s SO touching. I seriously tear up the entire time. We sit down and do our craft which involves coloring. Yay! I love coloring. My thing (I’m afraid I’ll give it away if I say) seems to turn out really well and some of the sisters and PNM’s comment on it. There is one sister however that seems to be writing things down and another that is going around the room just looking at us. This makes me really nervous. I like this chapter again but am afraid that there is too much diversity (it seems like cliques form) for such a small chapter and I’m afraid that will bother me. However, anywhere in life this can happen I suppose and try not to let that sway me. If I get invited back to pref I would go but am still on the fence and preferring Cheesecake Fantasy and Cookie Mintster.

Cookie Mintster- These girls and their room is seriously decked out. They obviously took lots of time to prepare for this. The philanthropy chair speaks and tells us all the different activities they do to raise money for their philanthropy. I like that they have two which relate to the ideals they were founded on. The philanthropy chair explains that many of the ways they raise money are also ways for the girls to have fun together (ie carwashes, auctions, etc). They also tell us about different annual events they’ve had for the college community which are fun but also benefit their philanthropy. I like that these girls know how to have fun and give back. They also are all well put together and put on a good, professional yet fun attitude. I really like them and hope to be invited back to pref.

We leave and are told to wait by our cell phones as later in the evening we will get a call with which sorority or sororities can invite us back to pref. We can go to as many as invite us back.

Even though we don’t have to, just to let you guys know where I’d stand I’d rank the chapters:

1) Cookie Mintster
2) Cheesecake Fantasy
3) Founder’s Favorite
4) Birthday Cake Remix

I wait practically all night until finally at like midnight or so I get a call… where do you think I got invited back to?