[texas*princess]

i hate to say it, but the people your boy hangs out with are a direct reflection of himself. (as goes for everyone else).

my main college guy did the same exact thing... though for me it wasn't a change in environment b/c at the time i was part of a local. he decides his last year to join a fraternity, and while they seemed like good guys for the most part on the outside, they were the same exact way you are describing (minus the drugs part).... you would have thought being a senior he would have been mature enough to evade it, but even after we moved 500 miles away, that behavior began to come though in him..... needless to say, we are no longer together.

some guys just want to fit in and they will do so with whoever will accept them. maybe that's who he really was and it didn't come through until his whole fraternity experience? i don't know, but he was definitely not the same sweet quiet guy i knew before.

and that's not to say all greek guys are like that, because i have definitely met great greek guys & groups as a whole...but every once in awhile, you get your 'lemons'.