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Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your daughter's experience and I understand those who say they don't call the PNMs, I think that's too awkward a situation for many of the women to handle. At the chapter I advise, if there is a PNM coming/that came to COR events that they know they're not going to bid, they send a short written note (no email) telling them they appreciate the PNMs interest and their time in coming to the events, but the chapter is not going to be extending them a bid at this time. I don't think any particular "reason" is necessary, that might stray into membership selection territory. The letter probably still isn't too enjoyable for the PNM to receive, but at least it's some feedback and closure on both sides.
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