[ukjjmom]

Thanks to all who responded -- your insights were most helpful and most appreciated! btw, she never heard back. The only thing I want to add (for any current members who are reading) is that you probably should either tell the PNMs "you'll get a call by 10 tonight if you are invited back" OR call and tell them "we just didn't have enough spots" rather than have the girls wondering what is up. It is really really hard not to know. Although I understand its hard to give bad news, saving yourself a minute of discomfort at the expense of someone else's hours or days of painful waiting is simply unacceptable.