All posts above give you good advice, but as a mom, I bet you are really feeling all of the angst and emotion your daughter is feeling! I sympathize!
It is unfortunate that they all but told her to sit by her phone and wait for them to call about the rest of the week...sounds a little misleading. Are there other activities that they are calling about or was this THE call about a bid?
As a mom, give your daughter kudos for participating in COB and encourage her to remain open-minded about all of the opportunities that are available on her campus...including another group. It sounds like she is putting all of her focus on this one group since she suicided. I am a big believer in the saying all things happen for a reason" and without going into my own personal story, it is quite possible that this one of those "unanswered prayers" that Garth Brooks sings about.
