I agree with cuteASAbug. While I agree with you that in a proper world, every PNM would receive a call regardless, collegiate members are not always famous for their attention to manners.
I wonder if perhaps there is another group on campus that might welcome your daughter. Remind her that a positive sorority experience does not depend on whether you get into your first choice sorority. Not every sorority is perfect, but once you become a member and leader in the sorority, you can help change it for the better. I personally wouldn't want to join a group if I had to beg them to join... I'd hope that they were the kind of women who saw the good in me and wanted me as much as I wanted them.
If there is truly no other group on campus your daughter feels she will gain a positive experience from (which I think is highly unlikely, even if that is her current perception) then there are plenty of other opportunities to get involved in other campus activities and I think it is best if your daughter focuses on those instead of this unfortunate experience.
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