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Originally posted by KillarneyRose
I heard through my hometown grapevine that my serious college sweetie is getting married and I don't know why, but I feel weird about it! I'm happily married to a wonderful man, have 2 lovely daughters, a beautiful house...in short I have a great life and I very rarely even think of College Sweetie Guy.
So why is his getting married bothering me? I broke up with him, in fact, not vice versa. All day I have found myself wondering what his fiancee looks like, what kind of ring he got her, etc! lol It's not like I want to be with him or to even see him again. Maybe part of me wanted him to pine away for me for the rest of his life? I'd like to add that we broke up 11 years ago!
Has anything like this happened to any of you?
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I went through the same thing. I didnt have any contact with my ex for 5 years and when I heard she was getting married, it felt like someone punched me in the gut. It didnt bother me that we were not together , the thing that bothered me was the fact she was with someone else.