It would seem to me that if women are behaving in a promiscuous manner, that belies a deeper problem; namely a sense of poor self esteem. If these girls are sleeping with multiple men, it sounds like they're looking to really be loved and seeking affirmation, but are confusing "love" with "sex".
In any case, try not to condemn them so harshly (i.e. the term "sluttin around" seems rather hurtful and harsh), as they will feel that they are being judged. Rather, try to be sisterly towards them, let them know that in the sorority they are valued and cared for, and see whether there is some programming in your sorority that does enforce positive self-esteem, etc.
I know that you are likely angered and ashamed by these girls' conduct, but trust me, they need the love and support of their sisters right now, not condemnation and judgement. (I am thinking of 90210 , when Kelly used to be promiscuous, but then she later cleaned up her act...it can be done!)
Good luck!
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