Tracy-
Its harder IMO when you do the breaking up-- because part of you may always wonder if you made the right decsion, even if you're deliriously happy in your own present life.
Is this the same guy that thought CeeCee was a goddess?
Take solace in the fact that his judgement with women is impaired and that the only true goddess in his life was YOU.
And then go give your husband and kids big sloppy kisses.
Amy