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Originally posted by dstbrat:
and honestly, she may not be ready mentally strong enough to go through a process. even in the best the case scenerio, it can be stressful.
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I would definitely agree to that! I love AXO and it would have hurt like hell to lose her, but at least this girl has options -- we don't have a graduate intake. She needs to stand tall and move forward.
I don't know how it is for other org's (obviously, but I always feel compelled to put that disclaimer up!) but we don't discuss the bid process
PERIOD -- after we take care of our business (ie, the active collegiate sisters) then it is dropped and
NEVER open for discussion among ANYONE - sisters, prospects, or hopefuls. Too much ill could come from some of those discussions
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Anyway - I would definitely encourage you to look out for her -- she may need some help getting back on her feet.