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This whole thread makes me think that the national officers of these folks proud of their "wealth" and "elitism" might be pretty embarrassed that some of their chapters actually feel this way. What ever happened to being founded upon brotherhood, friendship, excellence, academics, and community service? Can you only find that in the "elite" chapters in the South or the "untraditional" chapters in the North? Absolutely not! Having worked with over 40 chapters of my organization all over the country, I can say that each area has it's distinct climate but in each part you can find our values reflected in those women. Who is to say that my sisters at 'Bama and those at the University of Pittsburgh don't believe in the same things? It is AMAZING when we have national conferences because these young women do realize that they share similar values and interests with people all over the country. I understand that I'm speaking of a sorority here, so just to drive the point home, here are some excerpts from fraternity mission statements.
Phi Delta Theta: "The cultivation of friendship among its members, the acquirement individually of a high degree of mental culture, and the attainment personally of a high standard of morality."
"Beta Theta Pi is dedicated to building men of principle for a principled life. Our brotherhood aids the individual, builds the Fraternity and strengthens the host academic institution through lifelong devotion to intellectual excellence, high standards of moral conduct and responsible citizenship."
Sigma Nu: "To develop ethical leaders inspired by the principles of Love, Honor and Truth. To foster the personal growth of each man’s mind, heart and character. To perpetuate lifelong friendships and commitment to the Fraternity."
"Pi Kappa Alpha is dedicated to developing men of integrity, intellect, and high moral character and to fostering a truly lifelong fraternal experience."
I don't understand how one could value a chapter's selectivity or reputation over living up to what the founders intended for the group?
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