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Originally posted by DGPhoney:
wow Nupe that was pretty harsh to say the girl needs pschy help, I do think though, that she needs to find out why she didn't make line, and what are her other options. it's totally different when a guy doesn't get accepted to when a girl doesn't get accepted. Although the concept is the same , the theory is different.
Besides telling her that being rejected isn't that bad, and yes she can do grad chapter, she has to also realize that each chapter on each campus is very different, with different personalities. Maybe latter on she'll go grad or find another org or something, I do with you and your friend the best of luck 
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I'm sorry DGPhoney, but not eating and sleeping because she didn't make IS serious. Plus leaving school, when her grades are tight and she has all of these other nice qualities, then she should talk to someone.
FYI, some organizations don't have to tell why you didn't make it.
Besides, who says she will be accepted into a graduate chapter. I personally think it is harder, not saying that undergrad is easy, but I won't get into that. And switching orgs. won't make things easier, especially if they find out she submitted to another org, but I'm not getting into that either.
Nupe4Life and Ideal08 have good ideas about what God's plan is. Help her pray about it and try to do things with her to take her mind off of it.
Also, being rejected by that chapter may not be the only thing weighing on her mind. Try to help her as much as possible. Good luck.
[This message has been edited by c&c1913 (edited March 16, 2001).]