Obviously this girl needs psychological help. Whenever one, puts social acceptance before personal hapiness, they will fail everytime. From your statement about her grades, I hypothesized that she thought that because of her grades and other qualities, she thought that she was a shoe in to make the line. I guess she didn't know that rush is so subjective. You have to make her understand that she is still one of God's creatures. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe she wasn't as ready as she thought she was. Sometimes others can see things in us that we can't see in ourselves. And grad chapter is a viable option. But seriously, if she's not, eating, sleeping, or coming out of her room...she has a serious problem. You shouldn't take those signs lightly. If you have to, get her parents or mental health workers involved. It's better to be safe than sorry. I know some people will be like get over it, but for some rejection is a hard pill to swallow.
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