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re: chapter having to invite a legacy back. this is true if there is more than one invitational party before the pref. party, but if there is only one invitational round before prefs, the situation becomes more gray-it will depend on the sorority and the campus. however, it sounds like everything went well at your legacy chapter, so it doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about.

as to the chapter where everything seemed "on point", it may sound ridiculous, but they may have been working with a watch and a schedule to maximize the number of sisters who would be able to meet the pnms. they may have been filtering sisters in and out of the room, so that it does not become too crowded, and so it does not seem that the sisters are lurking around the perimeter of the room staring(and talking about) at pnms-which they usually aren't, but can seem that way to nervous pnms!

tomorrow sounds very tiring for both the pnms and the sisters. good luck to you-hope you get all the invitations you are hoping for.