[pinkyphimu]

initially, i was really anti-greek. one of the RAs on the hall had spoken to my bf at the time and told him that she wanted to talk to me about possibly joining her group. he basically told her not to even bother bc i was so against joining that i probably wouldn't even be nice to her. lol. the summer before i rushed, i met a group of women that i really liked. they were fun to be around and were not what i thought were "sorority" girls. it was almost the end of the summer before i found out that they were in a sorority. i knew i had to be in that group.

i would never have made another choice on my campus. hazing was a big deal and was practiced by three of the four sororities.

i went through recruitment and i was surprised by one of the top chapters. i thought they were the "mean" girls. they were actually really a good group of women. they hazed like none other, but they were much nicer than i had thought. as the years went on, they really appeared to have a strong sisterhood. they traveled in packs and were very involved on campus. i became good friends with one woman and she said she regretted being in this group because the "sisterhood" that everyone saw was just a facade to keep up their status on campus. another chapter was known to be the "snobby" group. this was proved to me over and over again. the third chapter was the "average" "mixed" group. i guess i could have found a home there, but they were trying to haze as much as the other groups. i have several friends from this group.