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To the OP, some of what you're feeling may be more common than you realize, no matter what kind of group you're in. I thinks it's easier to look up to people when you're the new one joining an established group with a reputation that you like.
It's a lot harder to maintain your enthusiasm for it when the people in the group are looking to you for the leadership.
The only way to reposition your group is to either work with the guys in it to seem more like the group you want (and they probably want to be cooler and more attractive to girls too) or to actively recruit the specific people on your campus who fit the group who are more like the original founders.
It's going to be hard work, but if you really want the brotherhood you have to keep going, I think that's what you're looking at.
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