Soror I can truly feel you on this one. Just recently I went to a stepshow and saw a young lady I knew from school and she was now a member of another sorority. But me and my LS remembered when SGRho was so in her heart. And when I was in school we had an interest, who we rejected and next semester saw her in different colors. I also knew of some who were rejected from the other BGLOs (cause they told us) and then tried to step to us. And my answer was a STRONG HELL NO!!! I think if a line is dropped that is very unfortunate and you should perhaps wait until grad. And if the person was dropped it was probably for a good reason. I feel very strongly about this, because time and time again I saw young ladies kiss some serious a$# to get into my sorority. And time and time again, some fell for it knowing that the person just wanted to be Greek or was just plain TROUBLE! Now if a person just goes to an informational for another sorority I am cool with that. But if they started going through the process and were dropped or were rejected...then I better not have seen them knocking on my RHOyal-Blue and Gold door...cause it was locked!!
And I am not trying to be mean but, that is what makes chapters weak, when you feel as if you have to let anybody in...regardless if they are in it for the long haul. Eventually if you were to keep this up in no-time your chapter will be on deaths door. When I was an undergrad, I was President and I was SERIOUS about who I wanted to call my soror. And between that year and the next we had the most interests come out in chapter history...cause they knew we had our stuff TOGETHER. And they had to come correct or not at all. Ladies do not want to become a part of anything they think that "JUST ANYBODY", can get into and that is my 22 cents!!!
EE-YIP
Tenacious