At my campus, we actually encourage the women to keep going through the recruitment experience especially after they are cut during COB. COB is a harder cut and decision on the sorority and just because she was cut does not mean that the sorority did not like her.
I find that those women who do go to COB events and openhouses and then go through Formal recruitment in the Fall actually have a better chance because the sororities will remember meeting them in the winter. We encourage women who are interested in joining a sorority to go out to as many events as possible and get your face out there. The more women get to meet you and know you, the "easier" recruitment can go in the fall because those initial barriers are down.
Does this help at all?
