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Originally Posted by SummerChild
no one has touched on this but, just being real, I am not going to take anyone that I'm dating to an event that is bound to be a room full of attractive women (this is Alpha Kappa Alpha after all LOL). Why would I do that?  |
I can't even lie...I have thought about this before LOL!
I'm glad this subject was brought up because of a situation I had not too long ago. My boyfriend has been good about including me in any social events his chapter holds, so now that I'm Greek I've asked him to attend social events with me as well.
The thing is, I'm a neo and he's been a Nupe going on 6 years now, so the things that are exciting and fun to me (strolling, meeting new Sorors, etc.) aren't as exciting to him, and I don't want to take him with me if I'm gonna want to be all over the place. But rather than tell me he'd rather not go, he'll tell me he wants to support me and wants to go. And on my end, I'd offer him an invite because that is what he's always done for me, but deep down I know it would be best to go without him so he won't just be sitting there all night.
But we talked about it, and have come to an agreement that depending on the nature of the event, we'll determine whether or not it's a couples thing or if we're better off going on our own.