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Okay, so I am single and not a sorority member (clearly) but I feel like I have something to add to this.
So I have a friend in a sorority and she's somewhere between 30-35. I know a girl in her chapter who is in her mid-twenties.
The friend was like "Oh, you know [Jane]? She has a bit of a rep, huh?"
And I was like how so?
And she said, well she just seems.....fast.
Well, I happened to know that Jane was, in fact, the campus slut. But, my friend brought up a bigger issue of perception.
See, Jane would bring her boyfriends/dates/friends of the moment to EVERYTHING. Service projects, formals, etc. So her rep got tarnished because it seemed like she had a new man every month and she was pressed to bring him around to fellow members.
Knowing that our orgs can be on the conservative side, I would just say that women ought to be careful if reputation is something they care about. If you have a significant other, I don't believe a woman should feel like she can't bring him around. But if you're just dating dudes..... yeah, they don't have to be around sorority members.
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