What a tough spot to be in. There's not much you can do or say. The best thing you can do is be there for her. Eventually this will pass and she will feel better, it just takes time.
Sometimes, in situations like that, trying to be encouraging may not really help since she might think "Oh well it's easy for you to say stuff like that since you got a bid."
I also suggest making sure you guys still get to hang out and have "roommate time" even though you're in a sorority
The best thing to do is be there for her when she wants to talk, but don't over-do it. Like if you keep saying "OMG I am so sorry", it may only remind her and make her sad all over again. Giver her her space and in a few weeks, things should be better.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 02-18-2008 at 01:26 PM.
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