Thank you James, for understanding what I was trying to say.
Cream, I guess visits are like other group's interviews. There was a list of things you needed to ask, but they were innocent things that one would need to know anyway and acted as a reference. We would ask them their full name, home address, phone number, major, birthday, etc. Also, we have Rose Families and Big Families and we asked them who was in their line. Then we got to choose at least two questions (but you could ask more) you would make up. A lot og girls would ask things like favorie, animal, color, movie, etc. but I wanted to go deeper so I asked things like favoerite college memory. Then you would give the piece of paper (or book depending how you wanted to keep the record) to the sister and she would write you a nice letter on it and decorate it with stickers. What would take 20 minutes easily turned into an hour or more beacuse asking different questions would get the two of you talking. GOing on visits was so much fun for me, and I really enjoyed it when girls came to visit me. It's one on one and personal, and with all of our schedules it's hard for us to find time where we're all together and can do stuff like that. I never considered it hazing in a ny way, and neither did the other girls going through. THere are other organizations on my campus that do things like this, but I would consider the way they do it to be hazing. The girls are required to have their book on them at all times and if a sister askes to see it and they don't have it, they get in trouble. We in no way would do something like that. We just did visits to be able to get personal with every single sister. I loved them, and I wish they weren't outlawed.
